As a child u need affection and validation from your parents. You also need to be reminded you are loved, shown you are loved. Every single person has a different language of love . No matter how young you are you deserve to be heard and respected by adults. We can learn a lot of things from our children. Not all the kids receive the same love language . Parents learn each of your children s love language. Some love to be touched and  hugged,  others wants to be told , others shown by buying gifts. It is important to love them in their own unique love language.

It is important to make money so you can take care of your 👪. It is imperative to spend time with your kids everyday or create a special ritual where the kids will know that they will receive their love 💘 he way they understand it .This will make sure that we raise balanced loving and caring children .

Throwing money at your children is not the aanswer,nor is it an easy way out . They will learn how to use the money from friends and this will expose them to all different kinds of addictions .

This in turn leads to you as a parent in distress because of the child who is now an addict going in and out of psychotherapy . And God forbid you face a rebellious teenager who will not even speak to the psychotherapist so they can get help. So the 30 minutes you could not give your child when they were young translates into hours of funding a psychotherapist that can get through to your child. This is not something not even money can buy .